Embracing Small-Town Country Life as a Single Mama of Two Boys

Hello and welcome to The Rad Mama Hub! I’m Kelsey, a single mom navigating life with my two wild boys, aged 3 and 6, here in our cozy little corner of small-town country life, I have been on my own now for 2 years. There’s something so beautifully simple and grounding about raising my boys in a place where we’re surrounded by wide open fields, family home, and familiar faces, and nature at its best. But it’s not always easy—especially as a single mama. Today, I want to share a glimpse into our lives, the challenges, the joy, and why I wouldn’t have it any other way.

One of the things I love most about our life here is that we’re part of a close-knit community. There’s something special about seeing the same friendly faces when we go to the local grocery store or a Saturday farmers Market. Plus living in the country, my boys get to experience living next to their grandparents and get a lot of similar experiences as I did when I was a child. We spend weekends outdoors—running through fields, riding quads, collecting rocks, and finding endless adventure in a forest or even in our own backyard. We couldn't ask for anything better.

One of the trickier parts of small-town life as a single mom is finding social support, I find myself alone at times, the single life vr married life. From school events to impromptu playdates, I’ve learned to embrace and build our community in unconventional ways, and connect when you can. I’m grateful for other moms and long life friends in town who’ve been like an extended family for years. For anyone who might feel alone, I’d encourage you to reach out—whether it’s chatting with the mom next to you at soccer practice or joining a local parenting group. We’re all navigating our own challenges, and sometimes, the people in our community can be the support we didn’t know we needed. I am always here if you wanna hang out, and go out one night.

My boys love trying out all kinds of fun DIY activities, from homemade playdough to backyard obstacle courses, building forts, and more. I also keep an eye out for fun things to do that don’t cost a lot of money. For example, we started a tradition of “Family Adventure Days.” Once a week, we’ll take a drive down an unknown country road, explore a new trail, or have a picnic in the park. My boys love it, and it gives us a chance to bond, explore, and make memories.

As a single mama, the balance of work and family is my biggest challenge. I want to be there for my boys as much as I can, but I also need to provide for them and keep our lives stable. The journey of unempoylement is for another blog and how its been feeling. But until then that’s why I’m on the hunt for work that aligns with my strengths and experience while giving me the flexibility I need to be present with them. It’s a fine line, but I’m determined to find a path that lets me be both provider and present parent.

Living in a small town means my boys learn early about nature, resilience, and the value of community. They’re involved in little ways around the house, helping with dishing, helping their Papa with yard work, feeding the pets, and even learning how to garden. In the quiet of the country, I see them building their own kind of independence and confidence. They’re learning to be imaginative and find joy in small things—a habit I hope will stay with them forever.

Life in a small-town country as a single mama is a unique journey. It’s not always easy, but I’m grateful for the lessons we learn along the way. Our days are filled with simplicity and a sense of community that I wouldn’t trade for anything. My goal with The Rad Mama Hub is to create a space where other parents, especially single moms, can find inspiration, ideas, and a reminder that they’re not alone in the adventure of raising little ones.

To all my fellow parents out there: whether you’re in a small town, a big city, or somewhere in between, let’s keep supporting each other, getting creative, and finding joy in every part of this journey.